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What do I do? Hubby has been lying!?
We've been married a year now & I recently found out that he was charged with domestic violence the same month we met. He was placed in the diversion program and required to attend some sort of life classes. That means he's lied about where he was when he went to these classes, lied by not telling me of the domestic violence charge, lied about where he was when he was in court each time, and on top of it the girl that filed the charge is still calling him occasionally. He has told me none of this & doesnt know that I know. I cant tell him I know for fear of what he will do. So, what should I do?
I'm so sorry that your husband lied. You should be proud of yourself for not ignoring this. Too often we make excuses for behavior that needs to be confronted.
I would start with calling your local domestic violence program. You can call the National Domestic Violence Helpline (1-800-799-SAFE) or visiting the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence website (www.ncadv.org) to find a program near you. We provide services beyond shelter, and many provide counseling, support groups, and confidential helplines that can help you look at all your options.
If your husband doesn't know you are aware of his conviction, I would not tell him yet. If he has abused another person he will likely continue his behavior in your marriage. Abuse is about control, and the only person who can change your husband or make him stop is your husband. If he is lying about this conviction and previous relationship, he is not showing signs he wants to change his behavior and be a good husband.
While I will never say a person can't change, your husband has lied extensively, and it sounds like he was having an affair, if he was charged with domestic assault (if he had assaulted something other than a romantic partner or family member it would have been an assault charge, not domestic assault). He has also spent your money because you have to pay a probation officer and pay for the classes he was required to attend.
I would seek counseling for yourself first, and decide if you think the marriage is worth salvaging. As a person who runs a domestic violence program, my instincts tell me it is not.
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